I learnt of a young vibrant lady in her early 20\u2019s who loved with all she had, she gave her heart, her time, her body, finances and all she could offer just for love. However, at the end, she had the worst heartbreak ever. She went away not only with a broken heart but also with a heart filled with hate and a broken hope.<\/p>\n
Now some people will say, she was a loser and did not use her brains well, others will say she was just unfortunate, that is how life is just move on and some will say she was careless. However, how does such a person be told to love again after such an experience? How would she forgive and forget? How will she sacrifice again? How will she be selfless and give all again?
\nWriting this, I find it challenging to say love no matter the hurt. However, I will still say;<\/p>\n
Someone will ask; but how would I forget all the hurt and hatred around me and love instead? I will propose a simple four-step rule to follow:<\/p>\n
1. Channel your focus and heart to a greater purpose<\/strong> 2.\u00a0 See people as human beings and not supernatural beings<\/strong>
\nGet a believe system, find a purpose in life and channel your energy towards achieving it. What I do is; put my trust in God, rely on Him for my happiness and fulfilment, and focus on building my purpose and work for a better eternity. What will you do? Make a decision and start taking steps today!<\/p>\n
\nYes man was created in Gods image, but man is not God nor is he a supper being. He is just man with so many flaws and weaknesses.\u00a0Never expect man to please you 100%, never expect your joy and fulfillment to come from your relationships .\u00a0<\/span>Men are prone to failure and to disappoint, so limit your expectations of them because you will always be disappointed. Instead, strive to see others better off than you (Philippians 2:3-4) strive to be an example for others to follow but don\u2019t get mad when they do not. Just be contented you did your part.<\/p>\n